Maturity

Maturity is a very high price to pay for growing up.

Of course we all mature as a result of age, some more gracefully and more tactfully than others. Aging is one thing, maturing is another. That graceful aging/maturing process can be applied to our business growth. Since we are going to invest more and more time in our success, it makes sense that we would gain mature knowledge through experience, especially the best kind of experience that is gained when we fail. Becoming more tactfully mature means that when we learn, we get on with making the adjustments and don't let the temporary failure stop us. If we are not gaining invaluable experience as we "mature" we are wasting our time and the time of everyone around us. When we mature in our efforts we learn that reasoned persistence is a primary key and that temporary setbacks are just that, temporary. In this regard, the price paid for tactfully maturing is a great investment.

The price paid for maturing becomes destructively high when the maturity begins to constrict our desire to dream and think big. Less mature individuals, typically younger people often think unrealistically big and when those big unrestricted thoughts are viewed through a clouded mature-lense, they are often labeled as nonsense or a waste of time. Dreaming is not a waste of time. Thinking big is not a waste of time. Kids want to be Astronauts, Doctors, Lawyers or Indian Chiefs because the imaginary piece of paper they are writing their dreams on is blank and has no limits. Because of their lack of maturity, the sheet of imaginary paper will be filled with a very colorful future rife with grandiose lifetime achievements. These immature souls have no limits to their dreams because they are not tainted with the vicissitudes of life that the mature individual is allowing to cloud their view of endless possibilities. You are never too old to think big, think young, think grandiose possibilities, to think figuratively about becoming an Astronaut, Doctor, Lawyer or Indian Chief. Maturity to a point is beneficial, but when you mature to a place where you allow the state of mind to limit your big and creative thinking, it might be time to step back in time and dream. Dream big and don't allow maturity to get in your way.